Update about the girl
As usual, she called me again three times yesterday. I didn't answer them, I was really not in the mood for talking because of my cough. A few hours later I turned on my yahoo messenger, i got an offline message from her with a lot of "buzz" in it. Anyhow I kind of relieved because I didn't see her on line and suddenly.. another "buzz" appeared and tadaaaaa..It was her!!! God grieve!! :((. I ignored her because I was busy chatting with my sister but then another second, third, fourth and fift buzz came again. My God, that girl was really bugging me a lot!! She has to be stopped. I said that to my self. I don't know why but I was very angry yesterday. Maybe because I am ill so I was very sensitive or also because maybe soon is my period so I am 3 times more moody. I dont know, but what I really know for sure.. the combination of both of it will cause hell for everyone who buggs me. So back to the girl. Here is the conversation:The girl: "buzz" <--- the first trigger of my anger
The girl: "buzz"
The girl: "buzz"
The girl: "buzz"
Me: "Hi, hobby banget nge-buzz sih??!!! Ga tau cara yang lebih baik ya untuk say hi?????"
The girl: "Habis kirain lo ga ada"
Me: "Ada kok, tapi kan gue ada kerjaan lain, ga cuman ngurusin chatting ma elo doang"
The girl: "Iya tau yang punya suami!! Mentang2 deh lo"
Me: "Eh bentar ya.. "
The girl: "Mo kemana lo??"
Me: "buzz"
Me: "buzz"
Me: "buzz"
Me: "buzz"
The girl: "Kok lo nge-buzz mulu sih?"
Me: "Ga enak kan kalo di buzz terus??????? !!!! Puas lo???Brisik tau!!!!!"
The girl: "Nah elo juga nge buzz barusan?"
Me: "Biar lo tau rasanya di buzz untuk ngobrolin hal2 yang ga penting!! Ga enak kan?? For now on I want you to stop buzz-ing me, OK?!!! no need to buzz me, I will talk to u when I want and when I can!!
The girl: "ih kok lo jutek gitu sih?"
Me: "Habis elo tuh model2 yang kalo ga dijutekin ga ngerti!!! Gue kan udah pernah bilang dulu dengan cara halus kalo gue tuh ga suka di buzz, tetep aja lo buzz, sapa yang ga jutek coba kalo gitu???????"
The girl: "Iya deh ok.."
........
The girl: "Btw tadi gue telpon kok lo ga jawab, pergi ya?"
Me: "Ada kok, tapi gue ga emang ga mau jawab!"
The girl: "Kenapa? belagu amat lo?"
Me: "Batuk gue nih tambah parah, bikin males ngobrol, lagian baru juga kemarin lo telpon gue kan? Ga mungkin lah ada perkembangan baru"
The girl: "Tapi kan gue pengen cerita2"
Me: "Lo kumpulin aja dulu cerita2 lo itu, atau ga lo ketik, bikin blog gih sana..atau jadiin novel, gue kan ga selamanya available"
The girl: "Ah elo tuh jadi orang sok sibuk banget"
Me: "Ya sibuk lah namanya juga orang hidup"
The girl: "Alahhh cuma ibu rumah tangga aja sok sibuk" <--- the second trigger of my anger
Me: "Eh ibu rumah tangga juga banyak kerjaannya.. Masak, bersih2, belanja, ngurusin suami dll dll, lagian biar gue ga kerja di kantor atau keluar rumah gue juga kan masih ada kerjaan dikit2 dari kantor lama"
Me: "Jadi kalo lo nuntut gue untuk available terus buat elo, gue ga bisa, lagian emang lo siapa??? anak gue???!!!"
Me: "Udah ya, gue mo bantuin suami gue dulu pasang rak di dapur"
The girl: "Alaaaah alasan aja paling tuh, bilang aja mau berdua2an sama suami lo"<---the third trigger of my anger
Me: "Iya emang gue mo berdua2an sama suami gue?? emangnya kenapa? wajar kan??!!"
The girl: <"Mentang2 lo udah punya suami!!! Awas ya kalo gue udah punya suami, jangan berani2nya lo berdua2an sama suami gue?!!!"<---the forth trigger of my anger
Me: "Eh maksud lo apa nih???? becanda????? siapa juga nanti yang napsu ma suami lo!!! denger ya!!!! Terserah lo bilang apa!! Bukan salah gue kalo lo sampe sekarang belum dapet suami wong kelakuan elo begitu!!
Me: "Lo rubah dulu deh perilaku lo, omongan lo!! Oh iya.. mulai sekarang lo ga usah nelpon2 gue lagi, ga usah nge buzz gue lagi, karena terus terang gue terganggu n enek banget sama kelakuan elo! OK?!!
Me: "byee and good luck for finding a man n selamat mencari temen baru, gue OGAH jadi temen lo lagi!!!!
.... (i deleted and blocked her yahoo id)
Well that's all folks! Pretty harsh and rude, hein??!! I was really out of control.. I kind of regret the way I talked to her, but what can I say?when it is too much then it is too much, I can not take it anymore :(. Anyway I learn 2 lessons from this:
1. Dont ever give your phone number, or yahoo ID to someone new, even if she looks nice. Email address will be enough.
2. Illness and PMS is a very bery dangerous combination, better not talk to someone during those periodes. :)
posted by me at
20:56
11 Comments:
issshh nyebelin banget sih mba tu manusia..hihihihihihi emosi jiwa juga bacanya...^_^ capeeeek deeehh
Iya emang Wid, capek lahir batin.. :(.
waduh galak amat :) tapi kayaknya i'll do the same kalo ketemu org macam begitu tuh.
habis gimana ya mbak, aku udah coba kasih tau baik2, aku udah pernah bilang kalo nge-buzz cukup sekali aja, kalo di buzz aku ga jawab berarti aku lagi ada kerjaan lain; kalo aku chatting juga ga bisa lama2, namanya juga ibu2 ada aja kan yang diurusin; terus kalo nelpon juga jangan tiap hari, ga enak sama suamiku, lagian kerjaan rumahku jadi keteteran kalo dia nelpon terus (tiap nelp lebih dari 1 jam, untuk dengerin dia aja) tapi dia ga ngerti, malah dia sering banget jawab dengan kata2 "mentang2 inilah, mentang2 itulah" yang paling sering "mentang2 punya suami!". Wajar kan mbak kalo juga jadi males?! :(
seru-seru...
kadang kita emang perlu SANGAT TEGAS untuk bisa hidup normal mbak...
dan perlakuan kita ke setiap orang di sekitar kita juga perlu pendekatan yg beda u masing-masing orang.
aku pikir apa yg mbak sari omongin ke dia udah tepat kok he he.
orang kaya gitu emang minta ditabok hu hu hu
beneran nih? apa ga terlalu jutek ya?? agak nyesel juga sih, tp gimana dong? mo ditelpon or minta maaf, nanti begitu lagi..
Waaaaaa...... jangan telpon lagi apalagi sampe minta maap...huuuuuu, bisa2 dia lebih berulah lagi.
Udah tahan tahanin aja rasa bersalahnya, you did good ;))
Iya ya.. bener juga, yang aku takutin tuh she will make a move on my husband :( soalnya gelagatnya gitu sih mbak.. nanya2 suamiku terus :(
syabas!!!! jgn telfon dia n nvr,nvr say u are sorry coz she had caused u much anguish....kesian si mbak. now relax n try to enjoy d moment coz u stood up for yrself. there is always d rite plc n d rite time to do smthg n i think tis was tht moment. well done!
u will feel bad for a little while but it will go away...she is probably thinking abt wht u hv said n hopefully see yr point n mayb regret wht she had done n lost a gd fren.
betul mbak, memang nikmat ga ada yang nge-buzz berkali-kali, misscalled bertubi2, atau telpon yang ga berhenti-henti.. tenang rasanya. I am really enjoying the moment, even more with the cough that is still in there :(
waaaaaaaaaah setuju setuju jangan di telp lagi dunk mba..ntar malah neror lagi...isssshhh sini mba,import aja ke jkt biar kita gebukin rame2..hehehehehe *upsss...*
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