What will you do if you meet this kind of girl?
I met this girl 1 month ago. I thought she was nice so I gave her my phone number (home and mobile).She calls me often to my mobile phone only to say "CALL ME BACK!!!" then she cut the phone, and not only that, she also starts to annoy me with her never ending phone calls to my home phone number, and one of her hobbies is "buzz-ing" me like many many times a day in yahoo msg.
Everytimes she calls, she only talks about her self, and always asks me to find a bf for her or about my husband. and she always acts as if she is a teacher and I am the student. I tried to ask her to a cafe so many2 times but she always said "why dont we just eat in your house?".. already inviting her self :( *sigh*
I am sick of her, but I dont have a heart to tell her that because I know that she is lonely and her life is not easy. What should I do?
posted by me at
12:22
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dear sister
i'm sorry, i have to tell you this..
i cannot contact you again, coz i have my own life to taking care of
i'll memorize your kindness for me, plis forgive me. tanx. best regards.
Masalahnya bukan aku yang contact dia, tapi dia yang contact aku. Kalau aku bilang sedang sibuk, dia nuduhnya aku bohong.. Capek ga sih ngurusin orang begitu.
wah...jadi ikut pusing ya, kl nggak tegaan, tapi kaya'nya yg beginian hrs ditega2in deh, coba aja dulu........
bon courage!!!
iya sih.. nanti deh persiapan mental dulu. soalnya hidupnya dia itu ga happy sih mbak. jadinya aku takut dianggap sombong atau gimana gitu.
maunya dia bertemen atau apa sih? kalo mau bertemen tp kok caranya aneh ya? lebih baik kalo aku sih dijauhin kalo ketemu orang spt itu.
kayanya mendingan gitu ya mbak.. Pernah satu kali aku tolak ajakan chattingnya yang berlama2an and ga bermutu itu karena suamiku ngajak nonton DVD eh dianya marah2 gitu!!! Kayanya sih dia kesepian mbak, ga punya temen. Atauuu wajar aja kali ya kalo dia ga punya temen orang prilakunya begitu?!
Jgn diangkat kl dia telpon lage or kl kamu berani blg lgs kl dia mengganggu kamu dgn telponnya yg bertubi2. Trus kl dia ngotot kerumahmu jgn mo, kasih alesan aja bosen dirumah. Kita khan emang mo berteman tp kl maksa geto ogah donk!!! Emang kita gak punya kegiatan laen apa.
auralia
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auralia wrote on Dec 8
julievilla said
Emang kita gak punya kegiatan laen apa.
Iya mbak, paling sebel kalo lagi chatting ma dia, ditinggal 10 menit aja, nge-buzz sampai beberapa kali. Belum lagi kalo nelpon or chatting pas menjelang jam makan malam.. grrrrrr ngeselin banget deh!! Terus kalo dikasih alasan misalnya, mau kemana gitu sama suami, eh malah2 marah, bilangnya "mentang2 punya suami!!" Pengen marah gak sih?!!
hmm, dia mungkin emang kesepian... she needs help ... tp serba salah juga ya
iya, padahal kenalannya dia jauh lebih buaaaanyyakk daripada kenalan aku.
Lha emang kita punya suami, tanggung jawab beda donk ma yg masih singel. Kok dia ketus geto seh??? Mending gak usah ditemenin aja deh. Biarin aja kl dia blg sombong ato apa, lha drpd kita yg sakit ati!!!
ya mbak suamiku juga bilang gitu.. nanti deh aku coba bicarain dulu baik2, kalo ga bisa ya udah hajar blehhh aja kl ya!! :)
butuh bantuan psikologis dia mbak...
kayaknya sih memang gitu mbak. diliat dari jokes-nya aja bukannya lucu malah membangkitkan napsu angkara murka, tutur tinular, mahkota mayangkara!!!
aneh juga ya say mending ya tegasin aja sih atau kalo gak bisa dijauhin gitu
Kayanya mau aku tegasin aja deh mbak. Abis dia sepertinya ga bisa dicuekin. Udah dicuekin nih seminggu aku ga terima telponnya dia, or appear offline, tetep aja dia gigih menghubungi aku. Males kan?? yg ngeselinnya lagi apa coba?? budaya "missed call"!!!!! kalo aku lagi kerja, dia miskolin aku terus!!! ihhh jaman kuliah kali miskol-in orang minta ditelpon.. Tolong deh hari gini...
had a friend like tht....tapi sekarang udah jarang tel. mungkin 6 bln sekali, tapi harus siap2 dari segi mental kalau dia tel...coz she will update me abt her life for at least 1hr if i'm lucky! kalau dulu hampir tiap hari tel tapikan akhirnya sudah kehabisan cerita but oh no! dia repeat d story ovr n ovr again....capek deh kuping ku...kiri dn kanan hehehe.....
like u, i'm one of those ppl tht don't hv d heart to say no.....but after a while it affects my mood n my family life (she don't care if my hubby is around!!). finally, i decided to ignore her calls...unplug d hse fon n nvr ans her on my hp. it took quite a while for her to gv up but alhamdulillah she finally did. i did feel awful (esp if i meet her on d streets) but in d end it's worth it. i hope u'll find a solution for tis one! gd luck!
betul mbak!! ni orang ga give up2 loh! padahal udah dibilangin sedikit2, tapi tetep aja ga ngerti. mungkin harus tegas kali ya..
bilang gini:
bu...
sori ya, gue dah coba ngomong halus ke elo
tp klo lo sendiri yg ga mau berubah dan mulai menata hidup lo sendiri
sorry gue ga bisa bantu lebih banyak
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terjemahin sendiri ya mbak...
intinya ya gitu deh
kalo perlu nomornya dia masukin daftar call barred aja
:D
iya Dit, kayanya tu orang mesti dijutekin deh. No other way sepertinya :)
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